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I Wish For Myself As An Adult That I Cared Less What People Thought Of Me, Especially People Who Don't Know Me.

Well, Dating Has Become A Sport And Not About Finding The Person You Love.

There's People Who Watch Shows While They're Preparing Their Dinners, And They Don't Want To Focus, And They Don't Want To Be Challenged, And Whatever. And Then There's People Who Want To Really Sit Down And Get Into A Character In A World, And Feel Like They're Expanding, Or They Have Complex Relationships, Or Whatever.

I'm Lucky Because I Have So Many Clashing Cultural, Racial Things Going On: Black, Jewish, Irish, Portuguese, Cherokee. I Can Float And Be Part Of Any Community I Want.

Mostly, Though, College Was Me Trying To Look Cooler Than I Was. There Were Definitely Some Carhartt Jeans And Backward Kangol Caps In My Repertoire.