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The In-love Experience Does Not Focus On Our Own Growth Or On The Growth And Development Of The Other Person. Rather, It Gives Us The Sense That We Have Arrived And That We Do Not Need Further Growth.

The One Who Chooses To Love Will Find Appropriate Ways To Express That Decision Everyday.

We Can Look At The Pain In Our Lives. We Can Look At The Way We Have Been Mistreated, And We Can Have An Attitude Of, I Will Never Amount To Anything. I Have Been Wrong About People All My Life. I Am Going To Pay Somebody Back For This.

Expressing Love In The Right Language. We Tend To Speak Our Own Love Language, To Express Love To Others In A Language That Would Make Us Feel Loved. But If It Is Not His/her Primary Love Language, It Will Not Mean To Them What It Would Mean To Us.

True Love Cannot Begin Until The "in Love" Experience Has Run It's Course.