Self-esteem Is The Greatest Sickness

There Are Three Musts That Hold Us Back: "i Must Do Well. You Must Treat Me Well. And The World Must Be Easy." And I Sometimes Think That As Long As We Keep The Second Must, Which Is Socially Learned, Then Some Screwballs 100 Years From Now Will Manufacture Atomic Bombs In Their Bathtub And Maybe Annihilate The Whole Human Race Because They Demand That The Rest Of The World Must Agree With Their Dogmas. When We Don't Agree, They May Zap Us.

The Emotionally Sound Person Should Be Able To Take Risks, To Ask Himself What He Really Would Like To Do In Life, And Then To Try To Do This, Even Though He Has To Risk Defeat Or Failure. He Should Be Adventurous (though Not Necessarily Foolhardy); Be Willing To Try Almost Anything Once, Just To See How He Likes It; And Look Forward To Some Breaks In His Usual Life Routines.

Eating Is Always A Decision, Nobody Forces Your Hand To Pick Up Food And Put It Into Your Mouth.

Even Injustice Has It's Good Points. It Gives Me The Challenge Of Being As Happy As I Can In An Unfair World.

I Started To Call Myself A "rational Therapist" In January 1955; Later I Used The Term "rational Emotive." Now I Call Myself A "rational Emotive Behavior Therapist." But From The Start, I Always Included Philosophic Techniques As Well As Experiential, Emotional And Behavioral Techniques.