When I Lose My Larger

He And She Become Selective At Different Points; She Can Be Selective When He Wants His Primary Fantasy - Sex; He Can Be Selective When She Wants Her Primary Fantasy - Commitment.

There Is What Might Be Called A Catch-22 Of Hazardous Occupations: The More Hazardous The Job, The More Men; The More Men, The Less We Care About Making The Job Safer. The Catch-22 Of Hazardous Occupations Creates A 'glass Cellar' Which Few Women Wish To Enter. Women Are Alienated Not Just Out Of The Fear Of Being Hurt On The Job, But By An Atmosphere That Can Make A Hazardous Job More Hazardous Than It Needs To Be.

As I Looked More Carefully At The Listening Matrix I Saw That During The Past Twenty Years We Had Taken A Magnifying Glass To The First Of These Four Quadrants, The Female Experience Of Powerlessness. I Saw I Was Subconsciously Making A False Assumption: The More Deeply I Understood Women's Experience Of Powerlessness, The More I Assumed Men Had The Power Women Did Not Have. In Fact, What I Was Understanding Was The Female Experience Of Male Power.

Ive Always Been Motivated To Stop People From Doing Dysfunctional Things.

[with Respect To Child Custody] A Woman Has No Right To A Unilateral Choice That Affects The Rest Of A Man's Life Any More Than A Man Would Have The Right To A Unilateral Choice That Affects The Rest Of A Woman's Life.