You Mainly Feel The Way

I Get People To Truly Accept Themselves Unconditionally, Whether Or Not Their Therapist Or Anyone Loves Them.

Life Is Indeed Difficult, Partly Because Of The Real Difficulties We Must Overcome In Order To Survive, And Partly Because Of Our Own Innate Desire To Always Do Better, To Overcome New Challenges, To Self-actualize. Happiness Is Experienced Largely In Striving Towards A Goal, Not In Having Attained Things, Because Our Nature Is Always To Want To Go On To The Next Endeavor.

Whatever May Be, I Am Still Largely The Creator And Ruler Of My Emotional Destiny.

Strong Feelings Are Fine; It's The Overreactions That Mess Us Up.

People Don't Just Get Upset. They Contribute To Their Upsetness. They Always Have The Power To Think, And To Think About Their Thinking, And To Think About Thinking About Their Thinking, Which The Goddamn Dolphin, As Far As We Know, Can't Do. Therefore They Have Much Greater Ability To Change Themselves Than Any Other Animal Has.